8 Sexting Tips to Keep Things Steamy and Safe
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8 Sexting Tips to Keep Things Steamy and Safe

Neha Joshi - Jan 02, 2025

They say a picture is worth a thousand words, but sometimes, a perfectly crafted text can do all the talking and more!

In a world where texting has evolved from “wyd?” to full-blown 50 Shades in a few characters, it’s no surprise that sexting has become the modern love language. Whether you’re miles apart or just a room away, the art of the spicy text can keep things exciting, intimate, and, dare we say, downright naughty. 


But here’s the thing, just like Ross and Rachel (whether on a break or not), sexting can go horribly wrong without a bit of finesse as it isn’t just about heat; it’s also about connection, creativity, and, most importantly, consent! Lucky for you, we’ve got the best sexting tips to help you nail the game while keeping it safe and comfortable for you and your partner. If you stay until the end, we are going to help you level up your sexting game with a massager. 

8 Tips for Sexting When You Want to Initiate a Naughty Conversation

Set the Scene

One of the best tips for sexting is to start the scene slow and build anticipation. Good sexting is also about storytelling. Don’t just stop at, “I’m thinking about you.” Set the stage and give them more to visualise. You can whip up a text that describes your warm skim wrapped in satin sheets, or you can tell your partner how soothing the hot water on your body feels while also imagining their touch. 

Dirty sexting tip #1: “The room’s dim, my skin’s warm, and I can’t stop craving  your touch.”

A woman pulling a man towards herself

Pro Tip: Add sensory details like sights, sounds, or even scents. 

Don’t Rush the Action

Just like any slow-mo entrances in your favourite shows like Bridgerton, the key to best sexting tips is also setting a slow pace. You can start slow and let the tension build because nobody likes a rushed conversation or a sext that skips straight to the climax. Flirty hints, compliments, playful suggestions or endearments will play the role of playful teaser that will build anticipation. Think of the slow start as the foreplay for your thumbs and create a crescendo of tension that leaves them craving the next message. 

Dirty sexting tip #2: “I just got out of the shower…water dripping everywhere, so I tied a towel around my waist, but it’d feel so much if it was your hands instead.”

A man taking gloves off of a woman’s hand

Play With Emojis, Your Naughty Secret Code

If you know how to playfully and perfectly use emojis, they can become your best sexting sidekicks. They’re flirty, suggestive, and fun when used in the correct situation but remember, the key is moderation because you want a spicy subtext, not a fruit salad. 

Dirty sexting tip #3: “Let me propose something for our next date:  🍑👋”

Mix Flirty with Naughty

Sexting doesn’t always have to be explicit. It can be a cheeky mix of flirtation and naughtiness which can leave your partner intrigued and wanting for more. You can also start the conversation by being coy, coupling innuendoes and subtle suggestions like:

Dirty sexting tip #4: “I just slipped into something more comfortable…and by that, I mean absolutely nothing.”

A horny man

Consent Is Sexy

Nothing kills the vibe faster than unsolicited sexts. No one likes to receive dirty messages without being warned. Gauge their mood and wait for an invitation to get spicy. Sexting will work best when you and your partner are equally into it.  


Dirty sexting tip #5: “I’ve been thinking about you all day…mind if I tell you how much?”

This way, you set the tone without overstepping boundaries. Sexy AND respectful? That’s a double win. 

Timing is Everything 

You need to pick your moment wisely when it comes to starting a sexting session with your boo. Imagine your partner stuck in traffic or experiencing a hectic day at work, and without you knowing their situation, a naughty message can either make their day even better or more tiresome. The right timing can make all the difference between steamy and awkward. Hence, it becomes important to be sensitive and mindful before starting a sexy conversation. Late nights after work or lazy weekends are prime sexting territory. 

Keep It Safe and Fun

Safety is not just about privacy. It is about trust and mutual respect. Always double-check your recipient (because accidentally sending “You drive me wild” in a family group chat is a nightmare and embarrassment nobody deserves!). You don’t have to feel pressured to go beyond your comfort zone. A sexy, confident you is always better than a forced performance.

A woman trying to hide her face

The most useful tip for sexting we can finally offer you is to be your confident and authentic self without fearing judgment. While some may feel dirty sexting tips are only for those who are experienced or who get it down very often, it can start with innocent flirting and exploring your intimacy with your partner. 

You can take the pleasure to another level by adding our Breeze for V-owners and Edge for P-owners. These silent, steamy heroes will help you bring your sexting fantasies to life in ways your phone screen could never. Why just sext about it when you can feel it for real?


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